My gift to you: The first 5 lessons of Libido Love completely FREE for a limited time!

Stop avoiding intimacy ...

And start looking forward to it again!

Understand your libido, sex drive and desire - so you can go from “what’s wrong with me?” to “Oh … this makes sense.”

Without labelling yourself as “low libido” and giving up on yourself or your relationship.

And today, you can begin with the first five lessons - completely free!

Do you actually enjoy sex?

If not, it makes sense that you’re not looking forward to it.

This is where so many women

get stuck ...

We tell ourselves:

I should just want it.
My desire should be spontaneous.
If I loved him enough, I'd be more into it.
He should just know what I like.

We carry so many silent expectations about what sex should feel like - and how desire should work.

And when our reality doesn’t match that script?

We assume something is wrong with us.

It’s hard to desire something that does not feel good to you.

No matter how much you love your partner.

If intimacy doesn’t feel satisfying, safe, or enjoyable, of course you won’t initiate it.

Of course you won’t look forward to it.

So how do you shift this?

You start by discovering what feels good to you just like my clients …

The problem isn’t that you don’t have desire.

The problem is that no one ever taught you how your desire actually works.

Most women are trying to fix the symptom.

But desire isn’t something you force.

It’s something you understand.

That’s why I created Libido Love.

A practical, step-by-step course that helps you understand your desire, remove pressure, and rebuild intimacy in a way that actually feels good to you.

And today, you can begin with the first five lessons - completely free!

Welcome to ...

A structured, practical course designed to help you:

Build a new relationship to your desire and turn-on
Understand how libido, sex drive and desire actually work
Uncover what turns you on and what turns your off so you can get in the mood more easily and reliably
Navigate mismatched libido in your relationship without blame or pressure
Communicate more effectively so you can speak up about what you want and desire
Consistently create turn-on in your relationship

Imagine no longer feeling the crushing weight of expectation again …

Imagine not having to think of another reason why you need to turn down sex tonight …

This isn’t about more effort. It’s about a different approach.

And today, you can experience the first part of this work completely free.

Why this course is different

Most advice tells you to:

"Just schedule sex.”

“Just try harder.”

“Just be more spontaneous.”

“Just communicate more.”

But if your nervous system feels pressured …

If sex feels like an obligation …

If you feel disconnected from your body …

No technique will fix that.

Libido Love doesn’t throw surface-level tips at you.

It gives you a framework.

A framework that works with your nervous system - not against it.

It helps you understand the root cause of the problem.

Because libido issues often resolve themselves naturally when you are having the kind of sex and intimacy that is actually desirable to you.

This course is for you if:

You're struggling with mismatched libido or desire in your relationship
You love your partner but find yourself avoiding sex
Intimacy feels like a chore - another task on your to-do list
You avoid affection because you're afraid it will lead to sex
You don't know what you want or what actually turns you on
You feel guilty that you're not as sexual as you used to be
You feel resentment around your partner's expectations
You don't know how to communicate any of this clearly
You want to feel safe, confident and turned on again
You want to feel excited about intimacy - not anxious about it

If you recognise yourself here, you don’t need more pressure.

You need clarity and a clear way for you to navigate this.

And that’s exactly what Libido Love gives you.

What we'll work through together:

Module 1:

Understanding Libido

From “What’s wrong with me?” to

“Oh … this makes sense.”

This is where confusion turns into understanding. You’ll learn how libido, desire and arousal actually work - so you can finally see why your body has been responding the way it has. Instead of feeling broken or behind, you’ll feel informed, grounded and clear about what’s really going on.

Module 2:

Your Sexual Brakes & Accelerators

From “Okay, I understand the theory…”to

“Oh … this is exactly what’s happening for me.”

Now we make it about you. You’ll uncover the specific stressors, beliefs, body blocks and emotional patterns that are shutting your desire down - and identify what genuinely turns you on. Desire stops feeling mysterious and starts feeling personal, workable and within reach.

Module 3:

Your Relationship to Pleasure

From “Why does sex feel like effort?” to

“Oh … this actually feels good.”

If pleasure feels like effort, desire will always feel like work. In this module, you’ll expand your capacity to feel - in your body and in everyday life - so arousal no longer has to be forced. You stop feeling the pressure to perform … and start experiencing pleasure from presence instead of expectation.

Module 4:

Navigating Mismatched Libido

From “This keeps causing tension between us” to

“Oh … we’re finally on the same team.”

Here’s where intimacy stops feeling like pressure and starts feeling possible again. You’ll release resentment and expectation, learn how to communicate in ways that build safety, and co-create a sex life that feels collaborative, connected and genuinely desirable - so desire has space to return naturally and sex becomes something you want again.

Each module includes:

In-depth video teachings
Guided practices and audio exercises

Structured journal prompts
Lesson recaps

So you don’t just understand the material intellectually, you integrate it.

Because understanding creates awareness.

But integration creates transformation.

And today, you can begin with the first five lessons - COMPLETELY FREE.

Because I believe the first step towards understanding your desire should feel accessible and pressure-free.

Here is what past clients have to say:

This is not about forcing yourself

This is not about becoming someone you’re not.

It’s not about pushing yourself to want more sex.

It’s not about performing intimacy.

It’s not about pretending everything is fine.

It’s about understanding yourself deeply enough that desire can return naturally.

Because when intimacy feels safe …

When pressure is removed …

When you know what turns you on - and what shuts you down …

Desire has room to bloom.

And when desire feels possible again, everything in your relationship shifts.

Hi, I'm Héloïse

I faked it for 15 years because I didn’t believe my pleasure mattered.

What was once my deepest source of shame is now my life’s work.

Today, I support women to prioritise their pleasure and reconnect with their bodies so they can cultivate a sex life that feels satisfying, safe and genuinely desirable - on their terms.

I’m a VITA-certified self-love, pleasure and intimacy coach, and I’ve worked with hundreds of women who thought something was wrong with them … only to realise they were never broken.

My mission is to help you realise that your pleasure matters - and that you’re allowed to make it a priority. Not someday, not when everything else is finally done, but today.

Still got questions?

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

1. How much time do I need to dedicate to this course weekly?

Libido Love is completely self-paced, so you can move through it at a rhythm that works for you.

Each module takes around 40 minutes to complete, and I recommend spending 1-2 weeks per module so you have time to integrate what you’re learning.

There’s a simple daily practice (10-15 minutes), plus optional journaling and deeper exercises if you want to go further.

In total, that works out to roughly 2–3 hours per week - about 20–25 minutes a day.

Small, consistent time dedicated to understanding your desire can create profound shifts in how you experience intimacy.

And you can always go slower. This isn’t about rushing - it’s about putting into practice what you have learned.

2. How long will I have access to the course?

You’ll have lifetime access to Libido Love.

That means you can revisit the videos, practices, and tools whenever you need a reset or deeper integration. You’ll also receive access to any future updates or additional bonus material added to the course.

This is a resource you can return to again and again.

3. How does the free preview work?

When you sign up, you’ll receive immediate access to the first five lessons of Module 1.

This gives you a genuine experience of the foundations - so you can begin understanding how libido and desire actually work, start recognising your own patterns, and see if this approach feels aligned for you.

You’ll receive access to the preview for 7 days. After completing the five lessons, you’ll be invited to join the full Libido Love course for $222 if you’d like to continue.

There’s no obligation - the preview is simply a way for you to explore the work and see if it resonates.

4. Will my partner need to do the course with me?

No. This course is designed for you.

All the core work focuses on you understanding your desire, and your relationship to pleasure.

In the final module, I share specific frameworks and practices you can use with a partner - but they don’t need to complete the course themselves. Many women experience powerful shifts simply by understanding themselves and communicating differently.

5. Do I need to be in a relationship to do this course?

No - you don’t need to be in a relationship.

While the final module focuses on bringing this work into partnership, the first three modules are entirely about you and your relationship to desire, pleasure, and intimacy.

If you’re single, this course gives you an incredibly strong foundation for future relationships - so you enter them informed, confident, and clear about what you need.

6. What if I’ve tried everything and nothing has worked?

If you’ve tried scheduling sex, reading the books, having the conversations - and you still feel stuck - you’re not alone.

Most approaches focus on fixing behaviour.

This is why so many women come to me after trying everything else.

Libido Love focuses on understanding your nervous system, your pressure patterns, your brakes and accelerators - and how desire actually works for you.

When you remove pressure and build safety, desire often responds naturally.

This isn’t about forcing yourself to want sex.

It’s about creating the conditions where wanting becomes possible again.